For years, I felt like a towering outsider, often uncomfortable with my height and trying to shrink myself to fit in. But then something clicked, and it wasn’t a glamorous revelation or a dramatic epiphany. It was a raw, defiant "F it" moment.
The Struggle with Height
Growing up, I often wished to blend in rather than stand out. My height made me uncomfortable, and I felt like an anomaly in a world where being petite seemed to be the norm. There were days when I dreaded the extra attention that came with being tall. I wanted to move through life unnoticed, to stroll through the grocery store or go about my day without the magnifying glass of being conspicuous.
Even when it came to fashion, my desire to be a stylish, heel-wearing fashionista was overshadowed by self-doubt. I would end up spending an evening feeling self-conscious instead of enjoying myself. I tried to hide, to dress down, and to avoid drawing attention.
The Turning Point
But then came my "F it" moment. I was tired of feeling small and hiding away. I realized that I would always be noticed because of my height, so why not give people something to truly look at? Why not embrace the fact that I’m already standing out and make the most of it?
It wasn’t a romanticized awakening but a firm decision to stop letting others’ opinions dictate my self-worth. I decided to walk tall, both in my literal height and my sense of self. This was not about letting go of my discomfort entirely but about embracing who I am, flaws and all.
Walking Tall in Heels
One of the biggest changes I made was incorporating heels into my wardrobe. Yes, heels! Instead of letting comments or sideways glances deter me, I proudly wore them. When people remarked, I responded with boldness. For instance, when questioned about my choice to wear heels, I’d say, “Models wear heels. Are you suggesting they shouldn’t because of their height?”
I learned to advocate for myself and to discern between genuine curiosity and inappropriate comments. I realized that some people are just ignorant or thoughtless. Their words were not my burden to carry. I only allowed my own affirmations of who I am to take root in my mind.
The Final Step: Bright Yellow Pants
The ultimate moment of embracing my full self came when I made a pair of wide-leg, bright yellow pants for a ladies' brunch. These pants were a declaration of confidence, boldness, and self-love. They were a vibrant celebration of my height and style.
From that point on, there was no going back. I had found my voice and my fashion sense. I embraced everything that made me stand out, and I learned to love the attention rather than shy away from it. My journey wasn’t just about accepting my height; it was about stepping into my full self and owning it with pride.
Embrace Your Full Self
To all the tall women out there feeling like they need to shrink themselves—don’t. Embrace your height and your uniqueness. Wear those heels, rock that bold color, and walk tall with confidence. You are already standing out for a reason, and the world needs to see you in all your glory.
Remember, walking in your full self is about more than just appearance; it’s about embodying confidence and self-love. So here’s to standing tall, embracing who we are, and giving the world something truly spectacular to look at.
With love and tall confidence.
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